The compass of the body: Translating the Signs of the Neurodivergent Body and Soul

6 p.m. The migraine hits.

Again.

That knot in your stomach that tightens hours before a 'simple' meeting. The tension in your shoulders that never quite releases, as if you were carrying the entire world on your back.

If you've ever been told that this is 'drama', 'being overly sensitive' or 'just stress like everyone else has', take a slow breath.

What is it like for you when your body screams and no one seems to hear?

Your body isn't failing. It isn't 'broken'.

It's showing its symptoms to you.

For us, neurodivergent people, the mind–body connection is not a thin line – it's a high-voltage motorway. What the mind silences, out of protection, fear or masking, the body screams. And each of these physical signals is a page in a sacred diary of awareness that we urgently need to learn how to read.

It's not Drama, but Inner Wisdom

Why can a loud sound or bright light, which other people find trivial, feel like a physical assault to us?

The answer is not in your personality, but in your brain chemistry. In neurodivergence – such as ADHD, Autism and Giftedness – the dance of neurotransmitters (dopamine, noradrenaline) follows its own rhythm.

Imagine that most people have a mental 'coffee filter' for the world.

They can block out the hum of the air conditioner, the clothing label scratching their skin, the side conversation.

We can't. Our filter is more like a coarse sieve.

Almost everything gets through.

We take in the world in sensory 'high definition'. We don't process only the main message, but also the whispers, the vibrations, the energy of the room. And living with a wider-open filter comes with a real biological cost – and also with specific functions and gifts.

The ongoing effort to process this tsunami of information whilst we try to appear 'normal' (the famous masking) keeps our nervous system in a state of constant alert.

It's like driving a car with the handbrake on: the engine has to work twice as hard, it overheats and, eventually, the warning light comes on.

Those warning lights are your physical and psychological symptoms.

Signs of the Neurodivergent Body: What is it Trying to Say?

There's an old piece of wisdom that says: 'the body remembers long before the mind'

Trauma, silencing and the exhaustion of trying to fit into a box that was never designed for you. It all leave marks.

When we ignore our truth, the body sends messengers.

At first, they whisper. If we dont listen, they start to scream.

How many of us have ignored those whispers until we hit breaking point?

See if you recognise any of these common patterns in our tribe:

The 'Enough' Migraine

Very often, it isn't just vascular.

It is the scream of a brain in sensory overload or social exhaustion.

It's the body forcing the only pause you tend to accept: a dark room and absolute silence.

It's your psyche saying it's time to slow down.

The Anxious Stomach

Our 'second brain'.

Anticipatory anxiety and fear of rejection (RSD - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) inflame the system.

It's the body trying to digest emotions we haven't been able to process.

It's all the words that never came out, the feelings we couldn't 'digest', the situations that didn't sit right with us.

The Muscular Armour

Clenched jaw, shoulders up by your ears.

This is the posture of someone living in hypervigilance, ready to defend themselves or flee at any moment.

Do you also feel like you're carrying the world on your shoulders?

Instead of looking at these signals with anger, try asking yourself, with curiosity and compassion:

What did this signal allow me to do (or avoid doing) today?

Perhaps the headache was the only socially 'acceptable permission' you felt you had to say no to that dinner that would have drained your energy.

Radical Pause: The Reunion

How many of us were taught to swallow our tears? To ignore our tiredness? To 'be strong' even when we were falling apart inside?

Maybe, in your story, your sensitivity was dismissed or invalidated. You learnt to unplug the wires of your own inner compass.

Today, as an adult and the architect of your own future, you can choose differently.

Listening to your body is not just another item on your to-do list. It is a radical act of self-love.

It is a way of saying to yourself: 'I see you. I hear you. You matter.'

Start with Mapping (The Signals Journal)

You don't need anything fancy. Keep a notebook. When a physical signal appears, write down the context, not only the pain:

• What happened 30 minutes before?

• Who was I with?• What were the noise and light levels like?

• Which emotion did I swallow?

Over time, you will stop seeing 'random symptoms' and start seeing the map of your sensitivity.

Tools for Harmonising

We don't need to 'cure' neurodivergence, because it is not a disease.

We need to integrate it.

We need tools that soothe the nervous system and say:

'It's safe enough now. You can lower your guard, and you can learn to integrate what you had to fragment back in childhood.'

1. Somatic Mindfulness (Body Scan)

Forget the idea of 'emptying your mind' in meditation (almost impossible for many of us).

Try a body scan instead. Lie down and gently move your attention through each part of your body, from your feet to your head. Just notice. Where is there tension? Where is there lightness?

It's a gentle invitation to inhabit your own skin again.

2. The Power of a "Personal Sanctuary"

The outside world is loud. Create micro-sanctuaries.

Use noise-cancelling headphones (our best friends), dim the lights, keep a weighted blanket nearby (deep pressure can soothe the proprioceptive system).

Give your body the sensory safety it needs to process the day.

3. Movement that Releases

Restorative Yoga, Somatic Experiencing or other gentle body-based practices can help. Trauma and stress can stay stored in our tissues. Soft movement and conscious breathing help complete the stress cycle and release this stagnant energy – often without needing to put everything into words.

And, whenever possible, consider working with a registered mental health professional (for example, a counsellor, psychologist or psychotherapist).

A therapeutic relationship that understands neurodivergence can support you to revisit your story and rebuild your life systems in a more conscious, adult and compassionate way.

Your Sensitivity is Your Compass

Your biography has shaped your biology, but it does not have to define you forever.

These signals that feel uncomfortable today are, in fact, a high-precision compass. They show you when you are drifting away from your truth – and when you are aligned with it.

They are invitations to a more authentic life, where you don't have to apologise for feeling deeply.

What if, instead of fighting these signals, you began to listen to them?

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✓ Exhausting masking – hiding your intensity to fit in

✓ Harsh self-criticism – that inner voice saying 'you're not enough'

✓ The chronic sensory overload described in this article

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